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Pamela Marline Toler

September 12, 1963 — September 18, 2022

Pamela Marline Toler, 59, of Water Valley, Mississippi, passed away on Sunday, September 18, 2022, at Methodist University Hospital in Memphis, Tennessee.

Pam was born on September 12, 1963, in Port Arthur, Texas to Marline Calcote Toler and Walter B. Toler. She graduated from Nederland High School in 1982 and Lamar University in 1987 with a Bachelor of Science in Biology and Bachelor of Science in Chemistry. Pam grew up in the United Methodist Temple and is a current church member of Freedom Place in Water Valley, Mississippi. She was an Environmental, Health and Safety Corporate Manager in multiple manufacturing companies for automotive and trucking industries; New Way Trucks in Booneville, Mississippi and BorgWarner in Water Valley, Mississippi. She also was a business owner and entrepreneur of HOTWORX Mid-County and HOTWORX Beaumont infra-red fitness studios. Pam loved to travel and entertain; she enjoyed gourmet cooking, home decorating and flower gardening. She had a very strong faith which carried her through her long seven year battle with cancer. Pam was a caring and devoted daughter, sister and companion who loved helping people and will be deeply missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing her.

Survivors include her mother, Marline Calcote Toler of Nederland; fiancé, Jamie Hickman of Water Valley, Mississippi; brother, Walter David Toler and his wife Deborah of Richardson, Texas and their children, Lauren and Matthew; sister, Jill Toler Lawrence and her husband Donald of Port Neches and their children, Eric Lawrence and Rachel Lawrence Maling and her husband Thomas.

Pam was preceded in death by her father, Walter Benjamin Toler; grandparents, Edward G. and Elizabeth Cole Toler; Foster Albert and Ada Mae Sadler Calcote.

A gathering of friends and family will take place from 12:30 p.m. until 2:00 p.m. Tuesday, September 27, 2022, at Melancon Funeral Home in Nederland, Texas. Graveside services will be held at 2:30 p.m. Tuesday at Oak Bluff Memorial Park in Port Neches, Texas.

Memorial Contributions can be made to American Family Radio at or Compassion International at to Honor the Memory of Pam Toler.
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Service Schedule

Past Services

Gathering of Family and Friends

Tuesday, September 27, 2022

12:30 - 2:00 pm (Central time)

Melancon's Funeral Home

1605 Avenue H, Nederland, TX 77627

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Graveside Service

Tuesday, September 27, 2022

Starts at 2:30 pm (Central time)

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