Brenda Elaine Distefano

Brenda Elaine Distefano, a cherished member of the Nederland, Texas passed away on May 14, 2025, in Houston, Texas, at the age of 74. Born on May 7, 1951, in Port Arthur, Texas, Brenda was known for her kind heart, patience, and remarkable talents in baking and homemaking.

Brenda dedicated 22 years as a secretary at Helena Park Elementary in Nederland, where her warmth and dedication left a lasting impression. She always had a smile on her face, brightening the day of those she encountered.

A skilled baker, Brenda enjoyed creating delicious treats to share with her family and friends, crafting each creation with care and precision. Among her most anticipated culinary contributions were her homemade noodles for Thanksgiving, a beloved tradition. Her homemaking skills were equally admired, as she was known for her impeccably organized and clean home. She had a particular talent for making a bed perfectly.

Brenda was a gentle soul, enjoying the comfort and peace of her home, where she spent most of her time with her dedicated husband, David C. Distefano.

A devoted member of her church, Brenda found strength and inspiration within her faith, reflecting her compassionate nature.

In her later years, Brenda bravely battled ALS, facing the challenges with courage and resilience. Her three-year fight against the disease inspired those around her with her strength and determination.

Brenda is survived by her loving husband, David C. Distefano of Nederland; her sons, Brian Distefano and his wife, Laura, of Friendswood, and Russel Distefano and his wife, Kiran of Sugar Land, and her grandchildren, Anna Distefano, Sophia Distefano, Brij and Om. She also leaves behind her siblings, brother James Poss Jr. and his wife, Joyce, of Bronson, and brother Tommy Poss of Port Neches. Brenda was preceded in death by her parents, James and Esther Poss.

Family, friends, and loved ones are invited to pay their respects during the visitation scheduled for May 22, 2025, from 5:00 PM to 7:00 PM, followed by the funeral service on May 23, 2025, at 11:00 AM, both held at Melancon Levingston Funeral Home, 1605 Avenue H, Nederland, Texas.

Brenda will be dearly missed, but her legacy will continue to inspire all who knew her.